Experts emphasize that studying and doing homework are part of a sense of responsibility, and point out that many parents make children lazy by being overprotective and overprotective. Emphasizing that the learning process works by doing things that the child can do himself in his daily life, experts warn, "First explain what to do and how to do it, then show it, and if he cannot do it, help him."
Esma Uygun, an Expert Clinical Psychologist from Üsküdar University NP Feneryolu Medical Center, said that homework and study crises are among the problems that come to the agenda with the opening of schools.
Don't make your child lazy
Stating that the main cause of the crisis is the overprotective and overprotective attitude of many parents, Uygun said that studying is a sense of responsibility and that children become lazy as a result of parents taking on things that children can do.
"Many parents are overprotective and overprotective, doing things that the child can do themselves and making the child lazy," said Esma Uygun:
"School is the first environment where the child experiences social life and a new area where rules begin to operate independently of parents. Responsibilities have started to come into play at school. Therefore, studying is a part of responsibility awareness. Therefore, the act of studying should be considered in terms of the sense of responsibility that children acquire from the family. Parental attitudes are of great importance for the child to develop a sense of responsibility. The child needs the support of parents in order to develop self-discipline."
Feeling of accomplishment motivates
Pointing out that pressure or scolding will cause the child to be disenchanted with the lesson and school, Specialist Clinical Psychologist Esma Uygun said, "The feeling of achievement provides motivation for the behavior of the child. It teaches them that they have to make an effort first. But while doing this, your style should not be a repulsive style such as "you do it yourself, you are a big boy now"," she advised.
Explain, help if he/she cannot do it
Expert Clinical Psychologist Esma Uygun made the following suggestions to parents for the child to gain responsibility:
"Do not hinder the learning process by doing things that the child can do himself/herself in his/her daily life.
First explain what to do and how to do it, then show him/her, help him/her if he/she cannot do it.
Let the child take responsibility for doing or not doing the homework.
Create a daily plan to learn time planning and help him/her adapt to it. While doing this, just remind him/her.
Never put pressure, be patient and understanding."